Aching Heart

I have been walking around with an aching heart. I have heard of failed adoptions but how do you cope when you don’t know if you have a problem or not? One of our two adopted sons left home on graduation day. No word; no fair thee well.
He came for his graduation open house, accepted his gifts and took all his belongings without telling us he was.
Epic failure?
I am not sure I have anything to give another youngster at this time.
